I would like to put down my thoughts as well.
I joined this forums primarily to share my thoughts and connect with small business owners. You see, connection is very important in these times. You never know when you will hit the correct partner.
As for making money here are some of my thoughts. I do make money through forums. However, I do not make them through direct sales letters or open request for business.
When I get requests for marketing services or content writing, it is through the posts I have made in the forum. If someone liked my post or advice, they would come to me for more advice and sometimes they end up as my clients.
I am not talking about the case with UKBF, but with other forums. My advice is to
1. Not think about making money, but deliver exceptional and quality advice
2. Offer help without expecting anything in return
3. Do not try to hard sell by spamming member inbox's
4. Continue contributing and seeking help
5. Never pretend to be something you are not (Hint to the guru's)