Business partnership issues

Granty1991

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Hi I’m currently in a business partnership with my dad and uncle and due to a massive disagreement they want to buy me out they have changed the locks and not told me what are my rights?
 
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Whatever the legalities, sorting such situations can be extremely time-consuming and detrimental to the people and the business.

As you're clearly not strangers, it might be wise to encourage an informal and level-headed discussion between the three of you, about the disagreement... with a view to finding things with which you're all in agreement and can move forward with.

And, if that's unsatisfactory or not possible, then ask them what they offer for you moving on... and if you consider that acceptable then get it formalised in a written agreement.

Something which I didn't grasp early-enough is that there's always another day to be insulted/offended/insulting/offensive - and that it's always better to neither begin nor escalate such things.
 
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Since this is a family matter most people, including many professionals such as lawyers, will not want to advise you on what to do. You will have to do all the research pretty much on your own.
 
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Something which I didn't grasp early-enough is that there's always another day to be insulted/offended/insulting/offensive - and that it's always better to neither begin nor escalate such things.

How true!! Of course, we oldies know nothing, do we?

Since this is a family matter most people, including many professionals such as lawyers, will not want to advise you on what to do. You will have to do all the research pretty much on your own.

Why wouldn't a professional want to advise just because it's a family matter? In fact there are solicitors who specialise in it! They're called family lawyers.

But bearing in mind glvr's advice, probably not best to escalate to legals if you can avoid it. This is a classic case of a family business not (I presume, from the OP's comments) having the equivalent of a pre-nuptial agreement before starting. I would try to find a 'referee' who's known and trusted by you all, to mediate any discussions. If you don't have or can't agree such a person, a profeesional mediator might help. Lots of lawyers are also qualified mediators/arbitrators and your first meeting will more than likely be free.
 
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I got the 'there's always another day' thing from Warren Buffett - and he acknowledges getting it from someone else (whom I can't remember, but is among the audio I broadcast).
 
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How true!! Of course, we oldies know nothing, do we?



Why wouldn't a professional want to advise just because it's a family matter? In fact there are solicitors who specialise in it! They're called family lawyers.

Professionals will always advise family members to try to sort out their problems before one member of the family takes legal action against another member of a family.

If a solicitor gets regular business from members of a family say for in conveyancing, wills and disputes with others outside of that family sometimes that solicitor is referred to as the family's solicitor. If such a solicitor is asked for advice by one member of the family with regard to a dispute with another family member, then the solicitor could find themselves in a difficult situation regarding conflicts of interests if that client wanted to proceed with legal action against another member of the family. There might not be a conflict of interests in many cases, but it would certainly still put the solicitor in a situation of possibly losing much of the family's future business.

Some solicitors specialise in family law. This matter does not concern family law.
 
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It might not be a matter of family law - it isn't - but that doesn't change the fact that it is totally normal practice for a solicitor to represent one family member (their client) against another. Sure, if there was a conflict of interest they couldn't act.

It's also true that a solicitor will (should) encourage the settlement of disputes without recourse to legal action. They have to demonstrate to the court that steps have been taken to do that via pre-action protocols and any solicitor who doesn't is likely to get into trouble as well as losing costs against the other side even if their client wins.
 
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Even getting a solicitor involved except as working for all parties together can be a major addition to the problem.
Family cannot be replaced, a dispute that escalates can have far reaching consequences and the further it goes the harder to later deal with.

Third party help that is not a legal attack on others may help. And perhaps once resolved then legal advice for the business to set up a method of dealing with disputes.
 
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You have had some excellent advice.It is far more difficult when it is within a family.I note that you have been locked out without warning and on the face of it this is provactive. However sometimes a line has to be drawn .You have to decide in your own mind whether the situation can possibly be resolved and that you are prepared to give it a try if the other partners will.In You then need to agree how this might be achieved.My inclination is towards a mediator of some kind.An 'amateur' who you all trust,although very tough for them.or a professional who doesn't have the risk of falling out with all/some of you.You ask what are your rights.If this means you want out that is a different matter and may well need legal help unless you get an offer that satisfies you.
On a slightly different note,I wondered if it was a generational fallout with your Uncle and Dad.If you favour a very different way of working and see it happening again ,even if you tried to build in a way of settling disputes,then you need to split as painlessly as possible and go your own way.I have worked with my son to build his business and it is fair to say we have had our ups and downs.He has practical skills,I have a degree of common sense and no practical skills.We have worked hard at not rubbing it in if one was probably right.If it has been for the good of the business that has been enough.
With family disputes it can be so damaging so do all your can to avoid any permanent harm.There are no winners in such situations.
 
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Been there.... got several T-shirts.....

The problem with all family disputes is that the relationships quickly cause the situation to become emotive which lets the smallest of issues spiral completely out of perspective.

The legal industry gets extremely fat from this sort of dispute which can be sorted out far more economically by getting an impartial mediator involved who will talk to all parties and work with all parties to fashion a mutually agreeable solution. This also removes much of the emotion of direct contact between the parties.

Have a search for mediation services in your area - this is the link to Devon Mediation http://devon-mediation.org.uk/about/ as an example

A caveat - Mediation will only succeed if all parties commit to it.
 
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