If you post something on a forum you are likely to get things that you might disagree with. To react as 'not bovvered' is to ignore sources of valuable advice, which even if it doesn't fit your present plans, might be of later use, or of use to others reading the thread.
However, to be fair, you didn't ask for advice in the OP:
we have a website small shop its info only we dont sell thru the site! Its really for fairly local people i guess show them what we do and tempt them in.
We have a banner on order to go outside the shop with web addy on and will tell customers any other ideas.
More a proclamation that you had a website, altho' later you did say:
How do we get more people to look at the site.
People replied, and after a while replied with great restraint. If you want people to look at your website with the aim of tempting them into your shop it was pointed out that an attractive, interesting, readable and visually tempting website would be more effective than your present site.
Every time a suggestion was made you brushed it aside. "You are talking out of your backside" was a reply. In every instance it seemed that you didn't want advice after all.
Given that several people made an effort to look and to post I think your idea of "Please drop it and im not coming back again" is a great result. You can carry on as you were, and if people here want to offer advice it might go to someone who at least considers any possible benefits.
So, to mix metaphors: It's your train set, a bit of a car crash, walking wounded even, but your train set...