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Root 66 Woodshop
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Hi folks,
It's been a while since I've posted here, I won't go into to much detail, but I've had a few issues, most of which have almost been sorted, however I've been struggling mentally, so has my wife (much worse than myself).
Back in November 2020, I gave up my job as a Security Consultant (Locksmith specialist) to go into business with a couple of (who I thought) friends...
So, we started a business, Full property maintenance, key cutting and locks, we also have a shop front selling hand made items, we have two older ladies selling from the shop and we're doing good... We're based in Heywood, Rochdale and we're busy... always busy doing something.
Unfortunately, promises were made, and basically not kept... I've fought on with the business no matter what, despite getting no guaranteed wages, one of my business partners basically walked away in december, the company owing him £3000 - (I've managed to pay him £2000 of that back) the other business partner (who I have known since 2008) only came in when he was working for the company, i.e. being paid £120.00 a day... although most days, he was only doing half a day... which I pulled him about, asking him what he was playing at... in fact my exact words were... "You're meant to be helping, and you're not"... He claimed I shouted at him (boohoo!) and then walked away from the business saying he was done... while I was off sick, he then emptied the bank account, sending me an email thanking me for the return of monies he invested... (which was only £647.00 plus according to him, some sand and cement totalling £118.00 which he has never provided an invoice for).
He's pulled over £5000 since start up of the business, working 3 days a week (mostly half days)... he's got "teams" in to do some of the work, so he could walk away from the job and do whatever he wanted to do that week, in fairness he didn't put in for when he wasn't working... but his attitude was, as soon as he starts the engine to go to work... he's working! (Pathetic I know!) getting to site for 10.30am and leaving at 4.00pm does not constitute as a days work to me, especially when I'm in the shop from 9.00am - 4.00pm and then out doing quotes till 7.00pm most nights.
Simple fact of the matter, since start up of the business I've managed to pull around £2000 to cover my rent at home, my wife pays most the bills, which I cannot fault her for, she's trying hard to keep us both going, any monies I give to her, instead of her putting it towards food, rent or bills she sticks it in the safe... just in case.
Despite the issues that both of them have caused, I'm still getting decent orders in, from Locks, to property maintenance work to hand made wooden signs (6ft and 8ft long and over £500 per sign).
My problem is, do I carry on... I have a joiner who is part of the company, he wants to carry on and move forward, my only problem is I don't know if I can do it... we have orders and deposits in totalling £1500 balances of these orders is another £1500 plus I have to pay back £2000 to a very kind person who lent me the money when she heard what both of them had done to us... Oh yeah, my good friend since 2008 was also my Landlord, he told my wife we were in arrears, which obviously we were not... him being a person (according to him, doesn't lie)... told her we have been in arrears since 2018, then emailed her the second to last page of our tenancy agreement... he's changed the amount from £515.00 to £650.00 per month... so we had no alternative but to leave within a week as rent was due and I wasn't going to let him treat my wife like this... never mind me! I would rather be inside for murder after what he's done to us...
Put it this way... he also told my wife that if she needed somewhere to stay, there was a bed at hers available...
I need help to decide what to do, customers are loving what we are doing, but I'm struggling financially and mentally... I don't want to let my joiner down, as he is prepared to close his business down and trade under the one company to help... but do I put him through that? Do I put him through that hardship, when he has no need to do it... or do I just get the jobs done that I've got in and close the business?
Oh, I've got another job coming in... for a full house re-fit, he wants us to strip the house first, see what the bones are like before deciding his next step... could potentially be a £15.000 grand order...
Since 2020 we've pulled in over £30k - I think that's not bad considering we started during the pandemic...
I'm 45, I've applied for a couple of jobs about 2 months ago when all the issues were in mid stream... no one wants someone of my age, whether I'm experienced or not in the trade that I'm in (Locksmithing and security)... their looking for younger, mouldable people... someone who can be trained the way they want, rather than someone that can already do what they need... if that makes sense... Going from a business doing what they do, to taking that person on... it's just doesn't seem to be the way these days...
I need someone to talk too, as I have no one now... my wife clams up and I need a bit of sensible guidance mentally and financially... I just don't know what to do anymore...
It's been a while since I've posted here, I won't go into to much detail, but I've had a few issues, most of which have almost been sorted, however I've been struggling mentally, so has my wife (much worse than myself).
Back in November 2020, I gave up my job as a Security Consultant (Locksmith specialist) to go into business with a couple of (who I thought) friends...
So, we started a business, Full property maintenance, key cutting and locks, we also have a shop front selling hand made items, we have two older ladies selling from the shop and we're doing good... We're based in Heywood, Rochdale and we're busy... always busy doing something.
Unfortunately, promises were made, and basically not kept... I've fought on with the business no matter what, despite getting no guaranteed wages, one of my business partners basically walked away in december, the company owing him £3000 - (I've managed to pay him £2000 of that back) the other business partner (who I have known since 2008) only came in when he was working for the company, i.e. being paid £120.00 a day... although most days, he was only doing half a day... which I pulled him about, asking him what he was playing at... in fact my exact words were... "You're meant to be helping, and you're not"... He claimed I shouted at him (boohoo!) and then walked away from the business saying he was done... while I was off sick, he then emptied the bank account, sending me an email thanking me for the return of monies he invested... (which was only £647.00 plus according to him, some sand and cement totalling £118.00 which he has never provided an invoice for).
He's pulled over £5000 since start up of the business, working 3 days a week (mostly half days)... he's got "teams" in to do some of the work, so he could walk away from the job and do whatever he wanted to do that week, in fairness he didn't put in for when he wasn't working... but his attitude was, as soon as he starts the engine to go to work... he's working! (Pathetic I know!) getting to site for 10.30am and leaving at 4.00pm does not constitute as a days work to me, especially when I'm in the shop from 9.00am - 4.00pm and then out doing quotes till 7.00pm most nights.
Simple fact of the matter, since start up of the business I've managed to pull around £2000 to cover my rent at home, my wife pays most the bills, which I cannot fault her for, she's trying hard to keep us both going, any monies I give to her, instead of her putting it towards food, rent or bills she sticks it in the safe... just in case.
Despite the issues that both of them have caused, I'm still getting decent orders in, from Locks, to property maintenance work to hand made wooden signs (6ft and 8ft long and over £500 per sign).
My problem is, do I carry on... I have a joiner who is part of the company, he wants to carry on and move forward, my only problem is I don't know if I can do it... we have orders and deposits in totalling £1500 balances of these orders is another £1500 plus I have to pay back £2000 to a very kind person who lent me the money when she heard what both of them had done to us... Oh yeah, my good friend since 2008 was also my Landlord, he told my wife we were in arrears, which obviously we were not... him being a person (according to him, doesn't lie)... told her we have been in arrears since 2018, then emailed her the second to last page of our tenancy agreement... he's changed the amount from £515.00 to £650.00 per month... so we had no alternative but to leave within a week as rent was due and I wasn't going to let him treat my wife like this... never mind me! I would rather be inside for murder after what he's done to us...
Put it this way... he also told my wife that if she needed somewhere to stay, there was a bed at hers available...
I need help to decide what to do, customers are loving what we are doing, but I'm struggling financially and mentally... I don't want to let my joiner down, as he is prepared to close his business down and trade under the one company to help... but do I put him through that? Do I put him through that hardship, when he has no need to do it... or do I just get the jobs done that I've got in and close the business?
Oh, I've got another job coming in... for a full house re-fit, he wants us to strip the house first, see what the bones are like before deciding his next step... could potentially be a £15.000 grand order...
Since 2020 we've pulled in over £30k - I think that's not bad considering we started during the pandemic...
I'm 45, I've applied for a couple of jobs about 2 months ago when all the issues were in mid stream... no one wants someone of my age, whether I'm experienced or not in the trade that I'm in (Locksmithing and security)... their looking for younger, mouldable people... someone who can be trained the way they want, rather than someone that can already do what they need... if that makes sense... Going from a business doing what they do, to taking that person on... it's just doesn't seem to be the way these days...
I need someone to talk too, as I have no one now... my wife clams up and I need a bit of sensible guidance mentally and financially... I just don't know what to do anymore...
