Maria,
I have just had a good look through this thread and was in a similar situation over the past year so i thought i would share my story.
I found a property online that was for lease and had agreed to lease the property in June 07. It went through my solicitor, to the agent and to the Landlords solicitor and they took forever to get back to my solicitor. In the end 6 months later and we hadnt even had any firm information.. I told them they had 2 weeks or im walking away. I take it they took it as a pinch of salt and then the date came, i was nervous and scared. Just told them it was okay i would leave the property and look elsewhere... *Cue* Ear bashing from them. It was terrible chasing round after them like a headless chicken trying to accomodate them when they didnt care about me.
I walked away from it, paid the Solicitor etc and then started on the hunt for a new property. I wanted to do it all properly. I viewed a couple of places and they were alright but didnt really suit totally.
Then an agent i was in touch with (June08) passed me onto a company who had part of there building for rent (Who do a service we can work along with although its separate building). The property was a little small from what we wanted. I spoke to the agent. Went to meet the landlord of the property and had a good look around. Seemed a great place and then the usual I WANT IT - I WANT IT started to kick in. At the end the landlord swapped business cards with me. I then spoke to them direct afterwards and they offered us some extra space that would work for me. They sent a head of terms to me and i then returned it with what i would be prepared to offer and then a few meet ups for dinner (courtesy of them) we had the information down and sorted.
My solicitor got the details through and was all what we had agreed and hammered through together to get something to suit both that we were happy with and they offered me 3 MONTHS RENT FREE for fit out ((Music studio - engineer/architect etc)) which was what i was after. I got some money off the rent too.
I was so glad in the end that i had waited a little bit longer to find a place that was actually even better than the original place (even though i couldnt have admitted that at the time as i couldnt think of letting the 1st place go)
Next week im going down to sign the lease and then get the keys for the place with the landlord.
Meeting them in advance, knowing and arranging something to suit both was so much better than trying to get something from people via email/post like the first landlord.
I hope some of this is of use to you and you do what you think is best for the long run and not what your heart says at this time.
Best of luck
