Really shocked today!

paulears

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One of my old dancers I used in shows for three years has shocked me. She'd had cancer when younger and was really lovely. She found a partner and got pregnant - then her cancer returned. A friend started a go fund me to generate the money for some special treatment not available on the NHS - loads of her friends (and me) contributed, especially when the pics on Facebook with no hair emerged. It turns out she has never had cancer, ever! A total con. Loads of us know her really well, or thought we did, and feel we really got took in. Despicable!
 
Sad to hear such tales, thankfully it is very rare to hear people lose the moral compass so completely.
 
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A hanging offence in my eyes...

Out of interest, how was she caught? Psychopathic liars often hide behind a veil of pleasantry.

I follow (stalk?) a guy who owes me money, a double bankrupt suit wearing, high dining, Mercedes driving benefits fraudster (charged and prosecuted), a one time nice guy who even to former friends is still a nice guy despite him stitching them up and living off their kind heartedness.
 
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There's plenty of Camouflage on GFM - Mostly Americans needing Heroic Surgery and using GFM as an End of the Line Insurance Policy.

But there is no sustitute for Due Diligence - The sort that you don't find on a Credit Check and an Employer's Reference.
 
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A little while ago I got an "email" from a friend saying he had cancer but as he was in the USA could not afford to pay. Had set up a GFM etc. I phoned him to commiserate only to be told he is fine and knows nothing about it.
Not sure what he did but the page disappeared fairly quickly.
Behold - A Miracle! . . . Spare a Shekel for an Ex-Leper!
 
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Awful.

A couple of years ago I donated to acquaintance's GoFundMe page. I met her a couple of times, she was so lovely but an absolute character - wasn't sure what to make of her, but two of my close friends were quite close with her.

The fundraiser was for her son, he had lost his hands from a rare condition and she wanted bionic hands for her 10 year old son.

Earlier this year, it was found out she used the money on her son - for ONE bionic hand, and the other for a new car and cosmetic surgery.

Needless to say, my dear friends have disassociated themselves with her.

Such a shame when these things happen.

I was quite upset, but have donated to good causes since.

Alas, right?
 
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There have been quite a few high profile cases like that.

I would also never, ever contribute to a crowd sourcing campaign for "special", "complementary", "alternative", "new" or "novel" cancer treatments. Too many are just another antineoplastin. Doesn't stop quite a few celebs being taken in who should be ashamed of the publicity they give to the charlatans.
 
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