Before writing anything further, let me make a comment. There is no need to be sarcastic or patronising to me or to others at the forum. Our purpose in writing is to help you, not to harm you. Behind the scenes, you sent me a PM, and I have been trying to suggest ways to help - which I will continue to do. You do yourself no favours by displaying a childish attitude at this forum. (Plus, I recommend that you don't challenge Nigel. He has the sharpest wit at the forums; his avatar is very appropriate!)
ec3ejb said:
it is a very simple thing to grasp. i want to do the mongol rall, there are also many pratical resons why i chose to go trhough the mongol rally rather than drive to mongolia indiviudally. i am not going to repeat why
Yes. From your own words, the motive is perfectly clear. You want to participate in the rally, you can't afford it, so you're looking to others to fund your adventure. By suggesting that any funds left over will go to a charity, you hope to add a cloak of respectability to your request. Put this way, you'll get no support. You have to convince us that you are sacrificing something for charity, not benefiting from the generosity of others.
ec3ejb said:
another thing i don't know if you can grasp this one but i can not afford to pay £1000 to charity. businesses can and will recieve advertising space in return.
I'd like to hear from the legal bods at the forum about this. This sounds like the purchase of advertising space to me, which is commerce and not charity. As someone asked you earlier, what is the name and registration number of the charity for which you work (i.e., the charity to which companies would be giving)?
ec3ejb said:
and to nigel if you think driving to mongolia is just a jaunt watch the 'long way round' or get off you arse and do the rally yourself.
For now, I'm going to write it off as the result of frustration that your idea is not yet taking off. One quick lesson, though: listen to your customers, listen to your colleagues, listen to your employees, listen to your friends; sometimes they may just be right.
ec3ejb said:
if i had wanted to have a repetive conversation i'd have gone to the zoo and explained the rally to a parrot.
Despite your attitude, I'm willing to continue to work with you behind the scenes. By all means launch your diatribe at me in a private message. Doing so in this public forum is not exactly going to help your cause.
Once again, here is the problem. The way you raise funds for charity is even more important that the amount of funds you raise. Charities rely heavily on personal integrity and sincerity of purpose. This means that you have to position your fund-raiser as something that benefits charity and not you personally. Until you do that, and convince everyone that you are sacrificing as much as any donor, your message will fall on deaf ears.
Edited to remove mention of causes for which I have worked in the past. I didn't mean to come across as 'holier than thou' in my message - sorry.