Do you avoid using the phone?

DuaneJackson

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The speaker at our next free event tells me that the vast majority of small business owners (telesales firms excluded!) really don't like using the phone and prefer to use other communication methods such as email.

As a result, they lose out on a lot of opportunities. Especially sales opportunities as they're reluctant to call that person that called them last week to make an enquiry.

I can kinda relate to that. Is it a trait you see in yourself?

(He also said most people aren't willing to admit it, so even if you don't reply he could still be right!)
 
I don't understand this thinking at all. You can't prod for pain points or do what it takes to close a sale by email.

Personally, I think it's a statement about the human psyche. In some cultures, we are simply uncomfortable about being direct (e.g., using the phone). Instead, we prefer the indirect approach (e.g., email). For small business owners, you have to be direct.
 
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I think I'm developing a phobia about phones.... might even change my answering message to : Don't call back, just email me.

But don't you find lots of things are resolved much easier by phone? I definitely should use it more.

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Scott-Copywriter

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just throw yourself in at the deep end, you'll be fine.

Off-topic, but do you have a site up for SCD yet?

I have done. When everythings sorted I'll be making my phone number public for direct contact, it's just a seperate VOIP line I'm using.

I do indeedy, the website is http://scdmarketing.co.uk/. I havent made it public yet because I'm still not happy with it. Badly needs re-written copy but I've kind of hit a snag with that one.
 
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Matt1959

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I think the internet is generating a load of lazy communicators. The phone is by far the most direct and reliable way of getting in touch with people (depending on your business as I can see that some businesses lend themselves more to email) I don't mind using it, and up to about 6 years ago, had to use it, but then I don't have to make cold calls - then I would prefer emails:)
 
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I am very confident on the phone but I just prefer IM and email because IM I can do other things at the same time + with both there is written records of what's been said where as with convos it's all forgotten. If someone is online you can ask them a quick question rather than make a phone call.

I do have clients where i have never even spoken to them.

Having said that there is nothing that can beat face to face and i much prefer that than any of the above.

It's difficult to do face to face when you are in my position but i still try and make the effort to pop and see a few people when i'm over, indeed I've put a few names to faces from UKBF over the past couple of years and will do more later this year.
 
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Eagle

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Email all the way. The phone, I find, is massively counter-productive when it comes to design:

It's a catch 22: If I'm listening to you, I'm not taking notes - and if I'm taking notes.... I'm not listening to you!

Email, email, email. Nothing finer for communicating a design brief - because I have it all in chronological order and can refer back to it at any time.

And it works... ;)

Mark :)
 
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I do use the 'phone, but I prefer not to! I'd much sooner use email. However, I appreciate that the 'phone is the better method of communications. I do admit to having to work myself up to a 'phone call though, the first time I speak to someone.
 
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estwig

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Always got the phone glued to my ear, got bluetooth hands free in the van and the car. would love a decent hands free thingy for the desk, like a one man conference call device, but they are expensive.

More then happy to use the phone to call clients and close a sale.

Do prefer e-mail and texting though.
 
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seabro

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I really hate the phone, it is intrusive. Helps people jump the queue. I am working for you and pow, the phone rings and someone just pushed in. Grrrr.

I try to be very 'to the point' when talking on the phone.There are very few people I can tolerate a lengthy telephone call with.

Since I frequently ignore incoming calls, and check messages hours later, you can normally get a quicker response from me via email.

All my new sales calls are handled by a call centre so I don't have to worry about them.
 
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Chris Kaday

I mastered the skillful use of the telephone as a salesman for a company called Kalamazoo Business Systems in the 70s when I was cold calling for 20 appointments a week for five years. If you are good on the phone you are good at communicating full stop. That means you can think on your feet and engage well in face to face conversations and presentations too. You can even take television and radio in your stride. The impact my ‘telephone apprenticeship’ has had on my wealth since those early days is incalculable. Made me pretty fearless too – something many of the owner managers I meet could certainly cultivate. To run a successful business you need to operate from courage not fear!
Chris Kaday

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bwglaw

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Having been trained and employed by national firms in the City I have grown a dislike for the phone, it is a waste of resources, my time and largely intrusive to my work.

99% of our clients do not complain, a very small number email us for a telephone number to just check we exist despite having all our details in the email! That small number also say we should have a phone number despite charging them a much lower fee than your high street law firm who offers telephone advice (that may not be as accurate as email advice)

The larger the client the more willing they are to rely on email.
 
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Matt1959

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would all you email fans rely on email for time sensitive communications? it has great drawbacks not least that there is no guarentee that the recipient has even received it ( as I found to my cost this week)

and not everyone appreciates being asked to click on the receipt button
 
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If you are good on the phone you are good at communicating full stop. That means you can think on your feet and engage well in face to face conversations and presentations too....To run a successful business you need to operate from courage not fear!
I agree wholeheartedly, and I'm surprised at the number of people who appear to be scared of the phone! I'm also surprised to read that some people ignore incoming phone calls from customers. What a fast-track way to lose business!

Just imagine, for a moment, that you sell insurance and you run a small office in the city. Someone enters the office and asks you a question. Instead of answering, you point to a mailbox; the customer is expected to write a short note with her question about insurance and put it in the mailbox. In your own sweet time, you get around to reading and answering the note. When the customer next happens to be around, she drops by and reads your response - which may or may not answer her question. By sending and receiving notes in this way, the transaction goes on for days. In reality, the customer would just get ticked off and go to someone who acknowledges her as a real person with real needs and can answer her questions right away.

Imagine next that, while the customer asks you questions, you don't look her in the eyes. Instead, you perform other tasks while she's talking: You write notes, file papers, pass along instructions to colleagues, and so on. Right away, the customer realises that you are too busy to listen and that she's not important to you. She storms out to find someone who will listen.

If, instead, you greet the customer with a pleasant smile, ask what's on her mind, listen to her concerns and suggest some appropriate services, and make her feel that she has your undivided attention, you establish rapport with the customer, understand better her needs, and win her confidence.

We may be living in an electronic age, but the principles are the same. Demanding that customers use email when they want the immediacy and interaction associated with a phone call is just like demanding that customers put paper notes in a mailbox. It's impersonal and it puts the focus on your convenience instead of on the customer's needs. By sending IMs or writing email messages while speaking to someone on the phone, you're not giving your undivided attention to the customer, and customers notice right away and rightfully get upset.

So why is everyone so afraid of using the phone when it's the most powerful way to communicate with customers anywhere in the world? Having read the messages in this thread, and forgive me for being direct, I suggest that we're operating from fear and not from courage - as the previous poster noted. OK, in some fields, email may be adequate; however, there's nothing like direct and friendly contact with a customer to win and keep business.
 
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bwglaw

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If you are/were asking me if I would rely on email for time sensitive communications, then no, I would rely on the good old Royal Mail. I guess it is a question of what kind of business you are in as to whether email is more (or less) advantageous. I also suspect that a large number on here run businesses from home hence relying on email to control when to be contacted.
 
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I'm OK on the phone if I'm in the right mood (and if I'm calling surveyed, call centre verified leads with bells on). I'm conscious though that my downline are not so confident. I'm planning lots of training for them but they go and hide in a corner when I mention it. It's the ones who can use the phone who make the most money.
 
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Chris Kaday

It telephone calling is really important in your company it is best to make it a total job not part of it as people will always 'catch up on admin' or be doing 'that important quote' in the golden telephoning hours rather than pick up and dial. Also in my telephone marketing company our staff were frquently drafted into our client's offices to set the energy standard . Chris Kaday Business Mentor
 
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I tend to use the phone lots. I get very impatient and when people contact me by email regarding a product or purchase order I call them straight away. People can ignore emails for a few hours but a phone call is different.

I think it also re-assures people about who and what type of company they're dealing with. Theres also nothing wrong with a quick 2min phone call to make sure they've received the goods etc..
 
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Coding Monkey

I prefer email - i think it's a matter of being lazy and having a record of what was said - but I'm much better at using the phone now than I used to be.

Email all the way. The phone, I find, is massively counter-productive when it comes to design:

It's a catch 22: If I'm listening to you, I'm not taking notes - and if I'm taking notes.... I'm not listening to you!

Email, email, email. Nothing finer for communicating a design brief - because I have it all in chronological order and can refer back to it at any time.

I'm in agreement with you both. A phone call often turns into a discussion, and the problem is that silences on the phone are quite hard for people to deal with. Often, you or the person you're speaking to becomes distracted, especially if there is a long silence in between. I have no fear of the phone, and very rarely will mind calling someone, although I specifically have a dislike of discussing new projects with new customers on the phone
 
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