It makes a huge difference. If the reverse thrusters do the main bulk of braking, then this massively reduces the stress on other components. That's why they do it, to reduce wear on other components.
No, they're not designed to tolerate your system and its nothing like reverse thrusters - they apply a force through the wings - a strong point on a plane. Your system doesn't touch the wings and your system will apply an even greater force than the engines themselves!
This isn't a new invention, you can check this out yourself with some research in to aircraft that actually have arrestor hook systems. It already exists, its been done and tested, the aircraft that use this system are strengthened! (Weigh more, use more fuel, fly less distance - you can read up about all this on Wikipedia, its a fact!)
In fact I'll do the research for you!
Lets take the latest Aircraft for the RAF that's in development now. The Lockheed Martin X-35. They have developed 3 different versions of the plane for different uses, and please note the differences.
"F-35A, a
conventional takeoff and landing (CTOL) variant. It is the smallest and lightest version"
F-35B "The U.S. Marine Corps will use the F-35B to replace both its AV-8B Harrier IIs and F/A-18 Hornets with a design similar in size to the Air Force F-35A, trading fuel volume for vertical flight systems."
"Lastly, the
F-35C, a carrier-based variant, will replace the "legacy"
F/A-18 Hornets and serve as a stealthy complement to the
F/A-18E/F Super Hornet. It will have a larger, folding wing and larger control surfaces for improved low-speed control,
and stronger landing gear for the stresses of carrier landings."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lockheed_Martin_X-35
Find any aircraft that uses arrestor hooks and it will say the same thing.
Reverse Thrusters are the existing engines directing some of the air forwards, they're part of the engine itself. Instead of it blowing backwards, it blows the air forwards.. No extra equipment is required.
Have a read..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thrust_reversal
You don't seem to understand where your force is applied and how. You keep stating the existing plane can take the extra force without modification but its not designed too!
Honestly my friend, this is not a new invention, it was done nearly 100 years ago.