UKBF Community Anarchy ?

I have just read the Hi From Manchester thread.

The opening post says (I have bolded some lines from it for emphasis):

Hi Everyone,

Im starting up a Web Design / Search Engine Optimisation / Web Marketing Business

Thought I'd join a forum like this to make some contacts / spread the word.

My website is http://www.web3graphics.co.uk/

It has only been online less than two weeks and is already Page Rank 3 : )

It isn't quite finished yet - but is looking good! Any criticism, advice or work offers would be appreciated!
My first point would be the thread is overtly self promotional, which is against the spirit/rules of the Forum.

My second point is that the OP is clearly not as experienced in the services he/she was promoting as the post would have you believe.

So, I can see why the thread developed the way it did - basically a dissection of the OP's professional credentials, but my scan read through did not pick up any personal insults/attacks (I may have missed them)??

So, Forum members in this case have 3 choices in participating on this type of thread:

1. Say nothing
2. Join in and diplomatically don't point out the "issues", even though "criticism" was asked for
3. Tell the truth

FWIW, if I had contributed to the thread, my approach would have been #3, and I may have come across as being a tad harsh too.

Why? Because my view is that when a member (newbie or oldie) self promotes something they are clearly not an expert on, I would want to protect other Forum members from taking up an offer/service that might not be the best investment in the world :)

Personal attacks and abuse are a whole different ball game though.....:eek:
 
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There is actually a 4th option:

As the intro post is not a place to self promote then report the post and let the mods deal with it clearly stating why you have reported it - with the new open moderation the mod can edit the post and post/mark why they have done so.

Gary
 
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There is actually a 4th option:

As the intro post is not a place to self promote then report the post and let the mods deal with it clearly stating why you have reported it - with the new open moderation the mod can edit the post and post/mark why they have done so.

Gary

I agree with you 100% Gary, I totally agree with open moderation and so yes there is a 4th option, which would perhaps of "nipped it in the bud" but that option was not available at the time of the thread in question.

I think what Ken, Steve and I are all pointing out is that we are not afraid to correct factually incorrect or misleading posts - for the benefit of other Forum members.

And sometimes, it may come across harsh.

But again, harsh truth and personal insults etc are two different things IMO :)
 
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I think what Ken, Steve and I are all pointing out is that we are not afraid to correct factually incorrect or misleading posts - for the benefit of other Forum members.

What it actually comes down to is that regular members feel (quite naturally but not rightly) that they are protecting the forum and the other members from the new person coming in, it's just human nature.

That's a common happening in a community. Practicing option for allows the regular member protect the community as they instinctively wish to and also keep the calm and peace.
 
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What it actually comes down to is that regular members feel (quite naturally but not rightly) that they are protecting the forum and the other members from the new person coming in, it's just human nature.

Ok, I hope you realise how much respect I have for you, so I'm all ears, perhaps I am wrong and would love you to elaborate - because RayB might therefore be causing more harm than good if I am reading you correctly.

I try really hard to do 3 things on this Forum:

1. Give advice and my time as much as I can to help people (often offline, and for free)
2. Join in/contribute to/create banter, humour and debate
3. Speak up when I see a post that is incorrect or misleading in some way

I would really respect your honest appraisal of this, because I am far from perfect :)
 
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Sorry i slightly mislead you there Ray i was more generalising about the condition that exists on all forums (communities). In a way I think I was agreeing with you but was just explaining what is happening in a sociological way.

I think, although not exclusively. it matters the most on the welcome forum. This is the place where the poster is seeking a confirmation that they are in the right place, a safe(ish) place where they can belong and ask questions for help. The irony is that those that post there are the ones that most need the welcome, those that don't generally speaking don't need that initial confirmation.

So the point is in the welcome forum we should either a)welcome b) say nothing c) report the post and state the reason why.

I agree I think your 123 works everywhere else with (of course) my addition of 4 - report the post.

This is an interesting subject for me as I'm doing personal research into how community works both on and offline, I hope what I've said makes some sense.
 
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I think, although not exclusively. it matters the most on the welcome forum. This is the place where the poster is seeking a confirmation that they are in the right place, a safe(ish) place where they can belong and ask questions for help. The irony is that those that post there are the ones that most need the welcome, those that don't generally speaking don't need that initial confirmation.

So the point is in the welcome forum we should either a)welcome b) say nothing c) report the post and state the reason why.....

...This is an interesting subject for me as I'm doing personal research into how community works both on and offline, I hope what I've said makes some sense.

If you're going to research this subject, could you monitor how many spammy type posts appear on 'General Business' as well, please!!! :D
 
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I have just read the Hi From Manchester thread.
Why? Because my view is that when a member (newbie or oldie) self promotes something they are clearly not an expert on, I would want to protect other Forum members from taking up an offer/service that might not be the best investment in the world



What I dont understand is why you are singling that guy out.

The reality is MOST of the advice on the "review website" thread is both WRONG and DANGERIOUS, and a lot of that advice is being given by web designers, and copywriters who have not invested enough time in finding out anything about the truth of what works - and some get even the very basics of SEO wrong.

Most of the webdesigners on here seem completely ignorant of all that has been done on eyetracking studies and conversion testing to even know what is important and what is important in the direct response sales process.

I tire of repeaing the phrases - attention grab headline - compelling offer - capture emails - call to action - use split testing - stop using pictures for all the wrong reasons . etc etc

And then getting slated for saying there are problems!
 
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I object to your post, as it misquotes RayB out of context :) I do get where you are coming from though :)

Sorry, I thought that extract summed up the essence of what you were saying on the thread, but had chosen that guy as an example....?

point I was trying to make is that if you posted every time there was something "iffy" said, I suspect you would have time for little else!
 
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Please read the thread thoroughly, I did NOT bring that thread into play, and prefer not to be quoted out of context.........................

Ray

I have no idea what subtle point you are trying to make at all

Beats me!!

If this......and I quote verbatim....


I have just read the Hi From Manchester thread.

The opening post says (I have bolded some lines from it for emphasis):

My first point would be the thread is overtly self promotional, which is against the spirit/rules of the Forum.

My second point is that the OP is clearly not as experienced in the services he/she was promoting as the post would have you believe.

So, I can see why the thread developed the way it did - basically a dissection of the OP's professional credentials, but my scan read through did not pick up any personal insults/attacks (I may have missed them)??

So, Forum members in this case have 3 choices in participating on this type of thread:

1. Say nothing
2. Join in and diplomatically don't point out the "issues", even though "criticism" was asked for
3. Tell the truth

FWIW, if I had contributed to the thread, my approach would have been #3, and I may have come across as being a tad harsh too.

Why? Because my view is that when a member (newbie or oldie) self promotes something they are clearly not an expert on, I would want to protect other Forum members from taking up an offer/service that might not be the best investment in the world

Personal attacks and abuse are a whole different ball game though.....


Is not trying to bring the :

I have just read the Hi From Manchester thread.
into play

Beats me what point you were trying to make.

I thought it was about whether people pitching should know their stuff or not and that had been dug up as example.

My point is there is so much tosh on this forum, if you started to weedkill it there wouldnt be much lawn left!

I thought it might be easier for readers if I chopped out all but the relevant lines



It would be easier for me if I didnt bother commenting on this forum at all.

Which is pretty much where I have now got to.
 
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My point is there is so much tosh on this forum, if you started to weedkill it there wouldnt be much lawn left!

There's a lot of subject matter on the forum - are you an expert on it all to make such a wide sweaping statement?

This thread is about the way that members treat members, it's not really about the quality of the content - as I understand it the manchester post was made because of the way the guy was treated by other members not because of the content. Not withstanding it was the content that sparked the treatment never the less it is the treatment this thread is concentrating on.

Please comment on this all you like :)
 
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There's a lot of subject matter on the forum - are you an expert on it all to make such a wide sweaping statement?

This thread is about the way that members treat members, it's not really about the quality of the content - as I understand it the manchester post was made because of the way the guy was treated by other members not because of the content. Not withstanding it was the content that sparked the treatment never the less it is the treatment this thread is concentrating on.

Please comment on this all you like :)


By implication you are saying that any area of the forum which someone does not understand , is likely to carry better quality information than the areas they do understand, so it is only the areas you do understand that contain tosh......

Begging a fascinating philosophical question

PS since the "Knowing the mind thread", which is at least 3/4 of the posts on the entire forum is mostly tosh QED
 
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By implication you are saying that any area of the forum which someone does not understand , is likely to carry better quality information than the areas they do understand, so it is only the areas you do understand that contain tosh......

Begging a fascinating philosophical question

PS since the "Knowing the mind thread", which is at least 3/4 of the posts on the entire forum is mostly tosh QED

Not really, to me it reads that it's simply saying you cannot assume that if there is tosh in one area that someone understands well, it does not mean there must be tosh in other areas. Some areas attract more tosh than others ;)

The knowing the mind of god thread is one area that will generate tosh, as there is no provable answer, differerent people have different viewpoints on what is tosh, and what is not.

Religion is not a provable, measurable thing, it cant be backed up with something provable at the end of the day. A post about law, web design or seo, or some other technical aspect usually can be proved or disproved one way or the other.

If there is so much tosh on the forum, why are new members joining daily, and countless posts being made each day by old and new members that are not being corrected or criticised?

To answer earlier posts,
The fourth option, reporting a post is a valid option sometimes - and one I have used before to report spam sometimes. Im open to learn more about it though, as my views currently are as follows (but willing to rethink)

Its hard to apply the fourth option in this forum, as they have a habit of deleting *entire* threads instead of just offending posts. So if someone on a thread, where people had taken the time to read and reply, commented something that needed questioning, or correcting then reporting post for containing inacurrate info would likely (based on previous threads being entirely deleted) mean the thread itself was deleted.

Also, by putting forward a opposing point of view, it gives the original poster a opportunity to reply with counter evidence to prove that they are correct, or to clarify that there are exceptional circumstances that where not originally mentioned that change the facts of the situation.

Also, if people started to learn that you could come onto a certain forum, post misleading info, and self promote to their own advantage, and the worst that could happen if they were caught is the evidence disapears, they would quickly realise they having little to lose by doing so.

It can be more effective if people think twice about doing so, due to the risk that the posts will stay, for all to see the situation as it really is.

Mods may also not be around on the forum, so the post could be up for quite some time before any action was taken, in that time people could act on information they read...

Also, how could a mod handle it differently? Im curious on that one, if someone makes a false technical claim, then instead of pointing out it's false you report it, what would a mod then do? Delete the entire thread? Delete the entire post? Delete just that one claim, leaving the rest alone and not commenting (so people dont realise a so called professional is making false claims etc, or worse have already applied the advice and dont realise it was wrong..) or state officially that their claim is incorrect, which to me seems worse than a fellow poster pointing it out...
Perhaps there is a way to handle this, do you have any ideas?


Are newbies treated differently on forums?
Sometimes.... Depends on the circumstances..

Im tend to post my view on something I disagree with regardless of whether the poster is new or established, I have argued with newbies, and admins, the usual difference is a established poster or mod/admin is much more likely to come back with a response that makes sense, rather than ignore the point, or go on to spam another forum......

Every new poster (you don't already know from elsewhere) on a forum starts out the same way, a unknown person, what they post earns them the respect of other posters. If someone who has helped out lots of people in the past, posts asking for help, I am more likely to go that extra mile for that person compared to a new poster who has not been around long.
I still help out the new posters when and where I can, and from time to time may go the extra mile regardless if the cause is a worthy or interesting one.

At the end of the day, everyone on the forum started with 0 posts...
You can only go by how they post - Im sure if you analysed the posts, you may find that more new posters get corrections/questioned etc than do existing posters, but thats more likely due to the simple fact that lots of people do join up to spam, or self promote, lots of people get a pc, design a website and call themselves a web designer, or a seo... The ones that stick around, and contribute tend to get less flack as they don't tend to post things that require comments in the first place.

Then again, if you analysed the posts again, you could well find that the actual percentage of new posters that are corrected or given what some people feel is a hard time is actually very, very low.... And you would probably find that out of the ones that did attract comments, the percentage of those comments that were accurate was very, very high..
Whereas the actual percentage of new posters that get welcomed and have no comments made about their claims, or corrections made is very, very high.....

I have not done that analysis though, so could be talking rubbish ;)
 
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Hi Kimrunner,

Lets just clear up the confusion!

I was pointing out that I was not "singling the guy out" in my post #121, but simply expanding on the debate about that thread, as first bought up in post #115

I hope that clarifies the situation - I certainly wasn't "singling the guy out" :)

PS - sorry, I did not explain the point I was making earlier very well, so apologies for that!
 
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By implication you are saying that any area of the forum which someone does not understand , is likely to carry better quality information than the areas they do understand, so it is only the areas you do understand that contain tosh......

Begging a fascinating philosophical question

PS since the "Knowing the mind thread", which is at least 3/4 of the posts on the entire forum is mostly tosh QED

I'm not implying that at all- how on earth did you come to that conclusion? I'm suggesting that if you don't know about the subject matter you are not 'qualified' (i use that world loosely - hyperbole) to say whether it's right,wrong or indifferent.

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Nice post Ken , thanks. Certainly gives food for thought on 'option 4 ' ( as it's now lovingly known as )
 
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Well, this could go on forever I suppose.......I think the new slant is interesting though as far as people implying that generally "newbies" (of which I am one) are not generally treated that differently and then go on to justify why they are....

I thought twice about responding to this as I don't want to come over as a negative member, though I do feel slightly aggrieved with the mixed messages....for example Ken Uk's post "the usual difference is a established poster or mod/admin is much more likely to come back with a response that makes sense, rather than ignore the point, or go on to spam another forum"......doesn't exactly inspire confidence for the newcomer.

I appreciate that there are forums like this where we are lucky enough to benefit from others experience, maybe I'm missing the point, but I am starting to wonder just how welcome I actually am?
 
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Maria,

You are extremely welcome and wanted here at the great family that is UKBF, as are 99.9% of all new members. :)

It is just that an established member is very unlikely to spam or blatantly self promote.

You are more likely to see that type of post from the type of new member who has no intention of really joining the community - that's how I read what Ken was trying to say.

Well, this could go on forever I suppose.......I think the new slant is interesting though as far as people implying that generally "newbies" (of which I am one) are not generally treated that differently and then go on to justify why they are....

I thought twice about responding to this as I don't want to come over as a negative member, though I do feel slightly aggrieved with the mixed messages....for example Ken Uk's post "the usual difference is a established poster or mod/admin is much more likely to come back with a response that makes sense, rather than ignore the point, or go on to spam another forum"......doesn't exactly inspire confidence for the newcomer.

I appreciate that there are forums like this where we are lucky enough to benefit from others experience, maybe I'm missing the point, but I am starting to wonder just how welcome I actually am?
 
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Maria you are very welcome.
This is just a, cough, "robust", ding dong which is not aimed at anyone personally.
Please do continue here, perhaps taking 'option 5': going to another thread which is more useful.:) (I am taking it...)
 
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Hello Maria, welcome



Some of the ladies on here take it............'ever so seriously darling'!!!!!
;)

Oh shurrup you twerp!! Love ya really!!

Maria, just remember that once upon a time, in a far far away land, where everyone had manners, and life was perfect ... we all started off as newbies and made a fool of ourselves to start with, till we got the hang of it, so please ignore spats, they come and go on this place on a regular basis, its the kiss and make up part thats the best!! :rolleyes:
 
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we all started off as newbies and made a fool of ourselves to start with, till we got the hang of it, so please ignore spats,

This got me thinking - The thing is there will be people joining who are very clever, very knowledgeable, very established in business, very confident and got loads of great info and advice to offer and will not get the welcome they deserve, it's not just the new to business people or inexperienced here.

I think that is a little bit of what Chris Kadey was referring too with attacting more experienced business folk to take part
 
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I'm visibly cringing here...erhhhh......."we all started off as newbies and made a fool of ourselves to start with, till we got the hang of it, so please ignore spats" ....paranoia is setting in, who is this directed at?

This got me thinking - The thing is there will be people joining who are very clever, very knowledgeable, very established in business, very confident and got loads of great info d advice to offer and will not get the welcome they deserve, it's not just the new to business people or inexperienced here.

I think that is a little bit of what Chris Kadey was referring too with attacting more experienced business folk to take part

Erhh.......obviously these are the exception to any other "newbie"? who obviously are not clever, knowledgeable, etc, etc?!
 
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This got me thinking - The thing is there will be people joining who are very clever, very knowledgeable, very established in business, very confident and got loads of great info and advice to offer and will not get the welcome they deserve, it's not just the new to business people or inexperienced here.

Hmm,

I don't entirely agree with this - for example today I thanked a new member on their very first post at UKBF

And there have been loads of new members joining this last few months who have got stuck in and are great to have around the place.

My hunch would be that new members taking to the Forum significantly outweigh those that don't?

Also, with a Forum like this, a new member will only get out what they put in. You can lead a horse to water and all that.....

Just my thoughts....
 
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Erhh.......obviously these are the exception to any other "newbie"? who obviously are not clever, knowledgeable, etc, etc?!

I think you are a little twisting or misunderstanding what i'm saying as clearly from the rest of what I've said in this thread i woudl make such a statement to say that the clever or acknowledgeable are not welcome etc.
 
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Oops, meant "are" welcome......but who's Gary?! I dont know everyone well enough to address them by their first name.....anyhoo, as I said, I'm concluding what I think and I definitely appreciate everyone here that has made me so welcome since I got here.......though of course, I will always have an opinion, and as Ray said, the fact that everyone is different makes the world go round, and I love that!
 
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I'm visibly cringing here...erhhhh......."we all started off as newbies and made a fool of ourselves to start with, till we got the hang of it, so please ignore spats" ....paranoia is setting in, who is this directed at?



Erhh.......obviously these are the exception to any other "newbie"? who obviously are not clever, knowledgeable, etc, etc?!

Its aimed at whoever wants to take it personally, although it was meant at no one in particular!!

To get anywhere in life, you need to develop the Branson skin ... ie not be worried what anyone says about you, as I am sure Richard B has had everything thrown at him and said about him, yet he continues to be successful.

And I suppose I should now qualify that statement by saying it also aint aimed at anyone in particular, just an observation I have found on getting on in business ... but someone will no doubt take umbridge at it ... :rolleyes:
 
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Almost on topic Anarchy in the Uk (IoW actually) Sex Pistols to headline Isle of Wight Festival:eek: .......and The Police the next day :D

Seriously though, the point of most topics on here is either to learn or teach something to and from each other, and there usually is more than one way of doing most things so I'd guess we all learn something each day. That said, its natural that relationships evolve where there is a common bond, most of us are big enough to sort the wheat from the chaf, that is in our perspective. Spammers aside, I feel that this place by and large is policed in the way most of us approuch our businesses, with the sense to be either constructive or to challenge the norm. Apart from a couple of instances, the mods have been on top of things, without the thread developing beyond a few posts, forr that I'm glad and proud to be surrounded by successful likeminded people...
 
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Well said Alan,

And this thread in itself has been an education as well, it has stimulated a worthy debate, and may encourage members (myself included) to give extra consideration to how a post is framed :)

And that is the (continuing) beauty of UKBF......
 
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