I feel there maybe other people who need that money more than i do! I dont like taking money when it can go to someone else more worthy. Im happy to spend money to make my business a success but not just throw money at it
Gemma
Why do you think you're less worthy than anyone else?
I'm not a fan of this 'I don't accept 'charity' mindset'. You only live once, so use everything available to you so you can support yourself and your family. Grants and help are there for people like you to use, so take them and be thankful for having the option available.
If I had a grant available to me which I could use to start or improve my business, would I use it? Without a doubt. If not, then I'd sit here with my 'morals' doing nothing whilst others took the opportunities and sailed ahead of me.
For the sake of your family, you need to make the harsh but realistic decisions. This website probably won't work without some cash behind it, so you either try to find that cash through a grant, or drop the idea and come back to it when your finances are more stable.
Anything else is probably just wasting valuable hours of time.
Theres a difference between the truth and what you want customers to think! Look big and make big - wasnt there a saying about that??
Gemma
Just be yourself. You're selling clothes, you aren't running a consultancy with blue chip clients. To be honest, I prefer buying from small businesses which are ran by ordinary people just like me. That's why I present my business the way I do.
I've been in tough financial situations before with my family when I was younger, where we weren't even talking 'hundreds'. We were literally talking tens of pounds, so I know you can't just muster up a couple of hundred to put into this. If you REALLY don't want a job, then you need to seek help in the form of grants and free professional assistance from government bodies.
Also, don't be afraid of benefits if you need to use them. They're there to help genuine people. In fact, I'm sure the dole has a scheme where you can run a business and earn money whilst still remaining on job seekers allowance. They keep the cash for 6 months so you can use it to re-invest. That means you can spend hours per day building up your online business whilst you know that you will be getting at least some sort of income in the mean time.
Do some research and explore ALL of your options. That would be my main advice.