Those aren't extraordinary circumstances. Those circumstances are so ordinary and have been around for so, so long that people have even come up with a name for it. They call it competition.
Whether that competition is charging or not is irrelevant - many companies offer loss leading services or use a freeium model. Are they "stealing" business as well?
Mine was the first post in this thread to tell the OP that if their 4 person business is struggling to cope with competition from an old guy with a screwdriver they need to examine what they are doing wrong. I'll stand by that.
Asking the competition to go away, however politely, is a cop out (and likely to be ineffective). But that suggestion does pander to the feeling of entitlement displayed by the OP who seems to believe that a good-hearted bloke helping a local charity is "stealing" their business and interfering with their God-given rights. This old geyser is accused of being engaged in a criminal activity - theft / stealing.
I tried to diplomatically give the OP a kick up the backside. But they need more than that. They could also probably use a good dictionary.
These are extraordinary circumstances though. How often does a business get a competitor open up in their small area, offering to do the same job for a donation to a charity? Not ordinary circumstances are usually called 'extraordinary circumstances'.
Loss leaders/freemium models usually have another facet of their service offering which does charge a premium, this gentleman does not.
Im not really interested in getting into the moral dilemma of 'sense of entitlements', and I agree that if a one-man band is destroying their profitability, there are other issues with their business model, but they come here for advice on how to fix the issue. I offered them a viable solution.
If the man is a philanthropist, I daresay he might be prepared to make reasonable allowances if he realises he is causing significant harm to the livelihood of a family.
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