Of course you don't need to apologise for something you haven't done. That doesn't mean you get to display the behaviour of the people for whom you are *not* apologising.It all comes down (IMHO) to context. There's a Bob Dylan song called 'Hurricane' about Reuben Carter, a black American who was framed for murder. One line goes 'and to the white folks he was just a crazy n****r, no- one doubted that he pulled the trigger'.
Should the song be censored, you know, a white guy using a phrase that is 'owned' by black folks?
Pulp Fiction. A really good film, one of my favourites of all time. Littered with the 'N' word. Should Quentin Tarantino be banned?
Where do we stop? Ban jokes? They pick on minorities too you know!
I happen to have a ginger business partner - he's had more than his fair share of abuse over the years - often from random strangers. Know what he does? He gets on with it.
I am not, nor have ever been involved in the slave trade. Neither have my parents or grandparents. Trace things back far enough and you might find some mud that sticks, but should I be apologetic for something someone I've never met before may or may not have done in the past? I think not.
There's a very broad difference between the art & cultural aspect of using such language and people using it in the same manner and with the same intention as those from times past: casting negative stereotypes and oppressing based on these. Using the n-word in Pulp fiction? It's the portrayal of an imaginary character. Making jokes about black people? If you're laughing at a negative and damaging stereotype then maybe you *do* need to apologise.
As for your ginger friend, well, you'll have to remind me how many years of being treated as property did ginger people endure? How often is he stopped by police for no other reason than being ginger? If you genuinely can't see the difference then perhaps you need to spend a little more time thinking about it.
This is in spite of the racism present in society, not because of a lack of it, and one has to be pretty blinkered to believe there are no more problems with racism.A black guy is at the top of the political world, others excel at business, sport, entertainment, ambassador-ness, in all walks of life.
Don't create problems where there are none please!
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