Hi Pops ... read from post 2468 and that's only part of what's going on in my life at the mo :redface: x
http://www.ukbusinessforums.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=178418&page=247
FaerieB - with the greatest of respect, that's not ''going on'' in your life, .
It has nothing to do with your life at all.
It's internet carp on an internet forum.
It has nothing to do with real life, or, more properly, it certainly shouldnt have anything to do with real life.
You have made a very big play on many many threads about you being ill, and you have, as you can see, an enormous amount of genuine sympathy.
You do however say things on here that make little sense and seem contradictory.
For example, you posted at great length on this forum about the run up to you being ill, and how it was precipitated by you spending all your waking time watching breaking news on the tv.
You have since told us all on the forum you are in therapy and receiving treatment.
Lo and behold, a few days ago you posted up you were spending the whole day watching breaking news flicking from the BBC to SKY. :|
Are you helping or hindering yourself?
I too, cannot understand how you can spend literally from morning till night on this forum, when you say you are working hard at reclaiming your life and your business. I really dont mean that to be a personal remark, and you can rightly tell me to farf off and mind my own business - but concern is a two way street - you cant continuously post about yourself on a public forum, and not expect those who are genuinely concerned about you to post up their views and opinions also.
Ive pretty much stopped replying to a lot of your posts, because I feel if I do, Im just encouraging you to continue to post up nonesense instead of getting off the damn computer and doing something constructive. I will of course reply to the occasional interesting post, but I for one, given all the information you have shared on this forum about you and your illness and your life, do not want to be encouraging you to use this forum as an avoidance technique.
Please stop banging on about stalkers. Constantly posting this stuff up here is simply reinforcing your own thought processes and may or may not be rooted in reality. If the stalking is real, deal with it through the proper channels. But I fear you may lose peoples sympathy and understanding when you appear to never stop banging on about the ''woe is me'' while at the same time, not appearing to be doing anything useful or constructive to remedy the problem. There is such a thing as sympathy overload.
Much of what you say does not ring true to me - but Im aware you are probably and most sensibly not posting key information on a public forum that would fill in the blanks and make the story make sense. However, that's neither here nor there what I think. The only issue of importance is you continue to sort yourself out and get your thinking rightly ordered.
I really hope you do.
I look forward to the time when you only pop in and out of here with exciting updates on the business which you will have made thrive and grow, and the occasional time killer thread. Not spending all day, every day, chained to a forum and the tv.
I wish you well in your recovery.
But you have to help yourself.
