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I have just googled and found this site - I hope someone can help me as I feel like i'm having a nervous breakdown...
A few yrs ago my BF's dad set up a business he told my BF he was setting it up for his future and would retire in a few yrs hopefully leaving him with a good business. My BF thought great - his dad named him and himself as directors.
BF's dad has been very secretive the whole time about the business and basically all the paperwork, books office stuff has been dealt with by him whilst my BF did all the manual labour.
6 months ago my BF's dad said the company was not doing well and he was going to liquidate the company and set up again.
He said he took my BF off as a director 2 months before he did this even though he didn't get him to sign any forms so he must have been faking his signature.
Me and BF had no idea how much debt the company was in and just after xmas started getting letters to our home address from HMRC asking for underpaid PAYE & NI totalling nearly £20k (I assume they have got address from BF's tax return as BF's dad has listed a really old address for his so he will not get anything). I am now in a total state but BF's dad said he passed letter to the company dealing with the liquidation and he said not to worry about it.
Today I open another letter addressed to the company but sent to my home address again asking for the money - there is interest accruing daily. BF tells his dad but he says just to ignore it and he is not bothered at all. I feel sick and am crying I don't know what to do.
We don't have any money to pay this and it's not even our debt and his dad is just ignoring it. I just can't understand how he can do this to us.
The letters are currently addressed to the business and not in my BF's actual name - but it says they are going to consider recovery proceedings. We wanted to try and get a mortgage in a couple of months time I feel like he has wrecked my future.
I am very worried as I have been told if they have no success getting money from the business the debt will be passed onto the directors - I know my BF's dad will just ignore this and they don't even know his address so it will all fall on my BF's back.
A few yrs ago my BF's dad set up a business he told my BF he was setting it up for his future and would retire in a few yrs hopefully leaving him with a good business. My BF thought great - his dad named him and himself as directors.
BF's dad has been very secretive the whole time about the business and basically all the paperwork, books office stuff has been dealt with by him whilst my BF did all the manual labour.
6 months ago my BF's dad said the company was not doing well and he was going to liquidate the company and set up again.
He said he took my BF off as a director 2 months before he did this even though he didn't get him to sign any forms so he must have been faking his signature.
Me and BF had no idea how much debt the company was in and just after xmas started getting letters to our home address from HMRC asking for underpaid PAYE & NI totalling nearly £20k (I assume they have got address from BF's tax return as BF's dad has listed a really old address for his so he will not get anything). I am now in a total state but BF's dad said he passed letter to the company dealing with the liquidation and he said not to worry about it.
Today I open another letter addressed to the company but sent to my home address again asking for the money - there is interest accruing daily. BF tells his dad but he says just to ignore it and he is not bothered at all. I feel sick and am crying I don't know what to do.
We don't have any money to pay this and it's not even our debt and his dad is just ignoring it. I just can't understand how he can do this to us.
The letters are currently addressed to the business and not in my BF's actual name - but it says they are going to consider recovery proceedings. We wanted to try and get a mortgage in a couple of months time I feel like he has wrecked my future.
I am very worried as I have been told if they have no success getting money from the business the debt will be passed onto the directors - I know my BF's dad will just ignore this and they don't even know his address so it will all fall on my BF's back.