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Hi all, just wondering if I could get some sound advice on this
The issue is this. I have a staff member with a few recurring issues that have cropped up in the last year (since he began actually)
1) Mobile phone usage - constantly on his phone, always hiding and using his phone (also probably related to number 3) - i have talked to him about it on numerous occasions, so instead he just finds ways to use it without me seeing.
2) Doesn't do anything in the shop unless I tell him to.
3) Always goes to the toilet (especially when we are busy)
But most importantly, he's been off at least once a month since he started. I calculated 12 days, which is 7.5% of all his working time
Then last month he told me he had depression and took 3 weeks off (with a doctors note), he came back and I have had a back to work interview with him, and he is going to get therapy but that hasn't started yet. After 2 weeks back to work, he is taking days off again (but this time for depression)
To be honest, I have no issues with mental illness if it's genuine. I would really want to support it and hope he gets better. However, I only have 3 staff in the shop and I've had to bring in two temporary part timers to cover for him and initially I gave them 2 month contracts, but now I am in a bit of a lurch with them as well! Ultimately I almost feel like I am being held ransom by him and it's inconveniencing all my staff as a result, who, by the way, also have noticed his lazy behaviour before the depression episode and also complained to me about it.
I have talked to him about the issues 1 and 2 and 3 above on a fairly regular basis (probably 4 to 5 times) but as I said, issue 1 has improved but not gone away, (2) is still the same. However, I have never formally issued him a disciplinary warning, it's always been a more casual chat about these issues.
After reading the forums and looking at the advice other people have given, I can probably dismiss him based on his working issues, but in a way, the timing is awful for him if the depression is serious. I saw on another thread how much it dragged on when you try to play the nice guy...! And I am getting very short of patience after all these months of him slacking off anyway.
The issue is this. I have a staff member with a few recurring issues that have cropped up in the last year (since he began actually)
1) Mobile phone usage - constantly on his phone, always hiding and using his phone (also probably related to number 3) - i have talked to him about it on numerous occasions, so instead he just finds ways to use it without me seeing.
2) Doesn't do anything in the shop unless I tell him to.
3) Always goes to the toilet (especially when we are busy)
But most importantly, he's been off at least once a month since he started. I calculated 12 days, which is 7.5% of all his working time
Then last month he told me he had depression and took 3 weeks off (with a doctors note), he came back and I have had a back to work interview with him, and he is going to get therapy but that hasn't started yet. After 2 weeks back to work, he is taking days off again (but this time for depression)
To be honest, I have no issues with mental illness if it's genuine. I would really want to support it and hope he gets better. However, I only have 3 staff in the shop and I've had to bring in two temporary part timers to cover for him and initially I gave them 2 month contracts, but now I am in a bit of a lurch with them as well! Ultimately I almost feel like I am being held ransom by him and it's inconveniencing all my staff as a result, who, by the way, also have noticed his lazy behaviour before the depression episode and also complained to me about it.
I have talked to him about the issues 1 and 2 and 3 above on a fairly regular basis (probably 4 to 5 times) but as I said, issue 1 has improved but not gone away, (2) is still the same. However, I have never formally issued him a disciplinary warning, it's always been a more casual chat about these issues.
After reading the forums and looking at the advice other people have given, I can probably dismiss him based on his working issues, but in a way, the timing is awful for him if the depression is serious. I saw on another thread how much it dragged on when you try to play the nice guy...! And I am getting very short of patience after all these months of him slacking off anyway.
