We're not, we are merely suggesting that she is reported and that due process is followed.
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Firstly this is only an alleged crime, let's not forget, it is only alleged until a court has reached a verdict. Indeed to actually call someone a thief (or allege any other criminal activity without a conviction, is itself an offence of criminal slander, which differs from ordinary slander in that the slandered party is entitled to damages without having to demonstrate any financial loss.
Secondly, the "victim" is the restraunt and it is only they who can report this to the police. A report filed by any other party, such as the OP, would be ignored.
"Someone has to begin the process of marking a thief as a thief". "
I cannot see any valid excuse at all for one of my staff stealing from a customer."
Such comments, indeed most of the comments in this thread, make me really pity the employees of those making them. The Dickensian attitude displayed by employers who, I would guess< considerably younger than me, make me cringe.
Perhaps if you paid your employees a better wage they would not be so desparate that they resorted to what is a fairly desparate act for items of a very small monetary value. So perhaps you are partly to blame.
Obviously you don't encourage loyalty from your staff. If you did then they might be more iclined to come to you if they have money problems rather than do such a desparate act.
For 40 years I've made it my business to look after my staff, and yes that has included lending them money, giving them paid leave to sort personal problems out, acting as a shoulder for them to cry on,and, making sure that we always pay our staff a good deal more than the competition and give them better benefits.
When sitting as a magistrate I've always taken the same approach. Yes the courts are there to "punish", but quite frankly that is, or should be, only a small part of the process. |I try to find out why people commit crimes, and if it's due to circumstances then I am always looking for ways to solve those problemns so that they dont offend again.
Of cvourse you cant always do it, but to my mind if I don't at least try then I would consider myself to be a pretty poor apology for a magistrate and a human being.
You know I've taken all sorts of people under my wing, usually "unofficially", after they've appeared before us - and not one of them has ever let me down. I've arranged for drug addicts to get treatment, I've helped desparate people find accomodation, I've helped women trapped in the sex trade by abusive partners to break away and get real jobs and homes for themselves and their children. Indeed one such girl (because that's all she was then) I helped, and she was my PA for 25 years and is Godmother to 2 of my daughters and is now happily married and a one of our closest friends.
I really do think that those commenting are too quick to condemn, too selfish to see if they might be partl;y to blame, and demonstrate an appaling lack of humanity and compassion.