Whether or not networking events are worth it depends very much on your attitude and approach to networking. Some people attend events and stick to their comfort zone, speaking only to people they already know. Others use networking events as an opportunity to 'cold call in person', in other words they play a numbers game and just pitch their business to everyone they meet in the hope they will strike lucky. Out of courtesy, they might just ask what the other person does, without really listening or while looking around for the next 'victim'. Neither the
meek nor the
mercenary approach work very well!
If networking is to be successful, you need to go in with a positive attitude and a long term strategic goal of building your own trusted circle of contacts or
referral network. You should seek to establish yourself as someone helpful and well connected, who is able to recommend reliable companies and regularly puts business people in touch with each other.
Building this sort of reputation and network takes time. The focus should therefore be not just on your own business, but how you can help those in your referral network, because each time to you help or refer someone, they will be more likely to return the favour. You're then effectively networking for each other, which is a great position to be in. There's immense power in a referral because of the trust factor when someone else recommends your services.
Having built my own business through networking, including BNI and Chambers of Commerce, I now run my own very social
business networking evenings in Richmond and Twickenham which provide a good networking opportunity for local businesses, as we often have over 100 attendees. Our relaxed and informal approach is popular amongst business owners, as there's a huge social side to networking that is often overlooked. Running your own business can be lonely at times, and the support and ideas picked up from fellow entrepreneurs can be highly motivating.
My advice is to try them all, including BNI, Athena, 4Networking, Chambers of Commerce, thebestof, Business Link, etc. and then stick to one or two that you enjoy the most. Useful sources of how to find networking events are
FindNetworkingEvents and
MakeYourMarkConnect.