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Hello
Apologies if this isn't in the right category, I've literally just signed up now to post this.
Basically, my dad started a business up in my name. He told me I have to put it in my name, as he can't put it in his (he never explained why), me being dumb, I did this because you have trust in your parents to not screw you over.
I've had nothing to do with this business, other than the fact it's in my name. On companies house, I am listed as a secretary, a director, and a person with significant control, owning 75% or more of shares, and my dad is just listed as a director. I asked my dad to take my name out of the business almost a year ago, he said he would, but this has never been done. I asked him about it the other day, and he claimed my name was taken off the business ages ago. I called him out on his lies as I said I've been on companies house and I'm still showing as active. He has lied to me this whole time, seems extremely suspicious.
He never opens mail for the business. I don't even know where the mail goes. He brought some letters back from somewhere the other day, I opened the ones from HMRC and saw 3 letters from them, dated from September, October, and November 2018 stating they haven't received a VAT return from the business and have estimated it at £1591.00 and it needs to be paid now. May I add that I'm 22, I have absolutely no idea what a VAT return is, I know nothing at all about owning a business or paying VAT, but I'm extremely worried that a business IN MY NAME is receiving these letters.
I confronted my dad about this, he started stressing at me saying it's a mistake and he sorted it ages ago. I don't see how HMRC would make mistakes... it seems pretty important. So anyway, I've told him that I want my name out of the business etc, he just stresses at me says I don't have a clue what I'm doing, he said I'm going to end up owing a lot of money (I don't see how...), I tried contacting the company that he uses for his accounts as they do all the filings and stuff for us (I think), the woman was of no help to me at all and my dad threatened me if I contacted the accountants again and said I was ''showing him up''.
He's now abandoned this business, he now owns another one which he created in August 2018 so he doesn't care about this one. So I'm stuck on what to do, I have absolutely no idea what to do. I have £3 to my name I cannot afford a solicitor, the citizens advice bureau is in the next town over I have no way of getting there, I've tried emailing the accountant and she never emailed me back. I don't even know what my dad is trying to do. He keeps telling me we need to close the business down now, if I close the business down whilst it owes this money to HMRC, will I get into trouble? What is going to happen to my name? I don't want to be disqualified as a business director as I'd like to own my own business in future (obviously when I know what I'm doing unlike right now lol), I just don't want my dad getting me in trouble or tarnishing my name. If I try talking to my dad about any of this he just shouts at me and he is impossible to talk to he just talks over me and walks out. I'd appreciate if anybody could instruct me on what to do, or what is going to happen to me. Thank you
Apologies if this isn't in the right category, I've literally just signed up now to post this.
Basically, my dad started a business up in my name. He told me I have to put it in my name, as he can't put it in his (he never explained why), me being dumb, I did this because you have trust in your parents to not screw you over.
I've had nothing to do with this business, other than the fact it's in my name. On companies house, I am listed as a secretary, a director, and a person with significant control, owning 75% or more of shares, and my dad is just listed as a director. I asked my dad to take my name out of the business almost a year ago, he said he would, but this has never been done. I asked him about it the other day, and he claimed my name was taken off the business ages ago. I called him out on his lies as I said I've been on companies house and I'm still showing as active. He has lied to me this whole time, seems extremely suspicious.
He never opens mail for the business. I don't even know where the mail goes. He brought some letters back from somewhere the other day, I opened the ones from HMRC and saw 3 letters from them, dated from September, October, and November 2018 stating they haven't received a VAT return from the business and have estimated it at £1591.00 and it needs to be paid now. May I add that I'm 22, I have absolutely no idea what a VAT return is, I know nothing at all about owning a business or paying VAT, but I'm extremely worried that a business IN MY NAME is receiving these letters.
I confronted my dad about this, he started stressing at me saying it's a mistake and he sorted it ages ago. I don't see how HMRC would make mistakes... it seems pretty important. So anyway, I've told him that I want my name out of the business etc, he just stresses at me says I don't have a clue what I'm doing, he said I'm going to end up owing a lot of money (I don't see how...), I tried contacting the company that he uses for his accounts as they do all the filings and stuff for us (I think), the woman was of no help to me at all and my dad threatened me if I contacted the accountants again and said I was ''showing him up''.
He's now abandoned this business, he now owns another one which he created in August 2018 so he doesn't care about this one. So I'm stuck on what to do, I have absolutely no idea what to do. I have £3 to my name I cannot afford a solicitor, the citizens advice bureau is in the next town over I have no way of getting there, I've tried emailing the accountant and she never emailed me back. I don't even know what my dad is trying to do. He keeps telling me we need to close the business down now, if I close the business down whilst it owes this money to HMRC, will I get into trouble? What is going to happen to my name? I don't want to be disqualified as a business director as I'd like to own my own business in future (obviously when I know what I'm doing unlike right now lol), I just don't want my dad getting me in trouble or tarnishing my name. If I try talking to my dad about any of this he just shouts at me and he is impossible to talk to he just talks over me and walks out. I'd appreciate if anybody could instruct me on what to do, or what is going to happen to me. Thank you