The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Cheaters

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  1. PI Guy

    PI Guy UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Cheaters


    Want to cheat on your partner and get away with it? It's not as easy as you think.

    However, according to Croydon Private Investigator Jorge Salgado-Reyes - a man who specialises in catching people "at it" - there are certain things you can do to reduce your chances of being found out:

    (1) Get a pay-as-you-go phone: mobile phone records are now the #1 way cheaters get caught. Pay-as-you-go means no itemised bills and, if you delete flirty texts and your call records, you'll cover your phone tracks.

    (2) Give your lover a fake name: suspicious partners are likely to go through your phone contacts, but they're unlikely to pay much attention to someone of your gender, so store your lover's number under a fake name of your own sex.

    (3) Don't say you're working late: two reasons: firstly, it's the oldest line in the book, secondly, if you're always working but not bringing home more money, it's going to raise suspicions.

    (4) Get a friend on board: a night out with a mate is the perfect cover story. Get a trusted friend to help cover your tracks by providing regular alibis.

    (5) Treat your partner the same way: people who are being unfaithful tend to start treating their partners differently. They either turn off their affection or they overcompensate and act more affectionately (e.g. flowers for no reason, when they hadn't done that in years).

    According to Jorge, "unless the cheater is a sociopath, he or she will treat their partner differently. But, it's all a question of degree: some people have far more self-awareness and self-control - better actors, basically - and they're the ones that are best at hiding affairs."

    (6) Don't change your appearance: when someone starts an affair, they're often tempted to dress differently or take more care over their appearance. If this is combined with acting differently towards your partner, it's increases the suspicion that something's going on.

    (7) Deny everything: love can make fools of us all and most of us want to believe the best of the person we love. Without concrete evidence and faced with a resolute denial, your partner can often be convinced that it's "all in his or her head".

    Do these seven things and you'll hide many of the most common signs of cheating.
    However, will you still get away with it?

    According to Jorge Salgado-Reyes, "in my line of work, I've learned two things about infidelity. Firstly, I've seen the hurt and suffering experienced by the victims. Secondly, I've seen how difficult it is to hide an affair."

    And his real advice for cheaters?

    "Don't do it. It's likely to destroy your relationship, cause lasting damage to your partner, and your kids if you have any, it will create resentment that'll linger and you'll be burdened by feelings of guilt … it's just not worth it.

    "Ask yourself 'would I do this if I knew I'd be caught'. If the answer is 'no', don't do it.

    "Because, if you do cheat, and your partner hires me, you will be caught!"

    ENDS

    For more information or to arrange an interview, contact Jorge Salgado-Reyes at Salgado Investigations on 02086869657 or 07817406410 (mobile)

    Jorge Salgado-Reyes is happy to make himself available for expert comment on any aspect of private investigation.
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  2. SillyJokes

    SillyJokes UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    Apologies Jorge but I got confused, assumed this was a 'joke' list written by that police bloke who was bonking at the railway station, but said it was alright as his pager was still on.

    Still, good tips. Thanks.
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: SillyJokes Member since: Jul 26, 2004
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  3. PI Guy

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    lol how did he get away with that?
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  4. SpeedyExpressCouriers

    SpeedyExpressCouriers UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    Partly disagree with you on this, using Nokia phones you can recover your sent messages but not the received messages or call records. Sorry to spoil it for you. :p
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: SpeedyExpressCouriers Member since: Aug 27, 2006
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  5. PI Guy

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    Obviously with some software and a simcard reader things can be accomplished.
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  6. SpeedyExpressCouriers

    SpeedyExpressCouriers UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    Nope, this can easily be done without any software or external device.
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: SpeedyExpressCouriers Member since: Aug 27, 2006
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  7. PI Guy

    PI Guy UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    Please enlighten us
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  8. SpeedyExpressCouriers

    SpeedyExpressCouriers UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    Oops, im really sorry but ive been mistaken. You cant recover the messages but actually the number who you have sent it too.

    Im sorry Salinv, please don't grit your teeth at me...
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: SpeedyExpressCouriers Member since: Aug 27, 2006
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  9. Cornish Steve

    Cornish Steve UKBF Newcomer Full Member

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    Cheaters have friends who, unlike them, can be trusted?
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: Cornish Steve Member since: Jul 4, 2005
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  10. stephendoyle

    stephendoyle UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    lol! good posts very imformative - if i was that way inclined :)
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: stephendoyle Member since: Mar 7, 2007
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  11. DuaneJackson

    DuaneJackson UKBF Legend Full Member

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    Very good release. I hope you get soem decent coverage from it. Keep us posted!
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: DuaneJackson Member since: Jul 14, 2005
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  12. PI Guy

    PI Guy UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    LOL I was wondering if there was something that i didn't know about. I'm somewhat releaved now.
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  13. PI Guy

    PI Guy UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    That they (the cheaters) would trust (men cover for each other)
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  14. sirearl

    sirearl UKBF Legend Free Member

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    er I take it you get double bubble from the divorce lawyers you work with for inciting people to commit adultery by publishing such usefull tips .ETC

    be carefull how you respond to this post your partner may be more computer literate that you thought :eek:


    Earl
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: sirearl Member since: Apr 23, 2007
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  15. ken_uk

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    Course you would be screwed in more ways that one if you cheated on a partner that knew about GPS trackers....
     
    Posted: Sep 10, 2007 By: ken_uk Member since: Jul 27, 2007
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  16. directmarketingadvice

    directmarketingadvice UKBF Legend Free Member

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    Damn technology!

    (only joking)

    Steve
     
    Posted: Sep 11, 2007 By: directmarketingadvice Member since: Aug 2, 2005
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  17. PI Guy

    PI Guy UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    or you could use a GPS jammer
     
    Posted: Sep 11, 2007 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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  18. Stephen Berry

    Stephen Berry UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    ... oh, sorry .... I thought you meant cheetahs :)

    anyway - some good tips ..... but do you realise what Mrs B would do if I was caught?

    Clue ..... remember Basil Fawlty and Sybil "you'd have to sew them back on first dear"
     
    Posted: Oct 8, 2007 By: Stephen Berry Member since: Jan 3, 2007
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  19. buhh

    buhh UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    This text started to wind me up big time until I found out that you do not promote cheating. Well done mate.
    All cheaters should have their genitals chopped off.
     
    Posted: Oct 23, 2007 By: buhh Member since: Oct 19, 2007
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  20. PI Guy

    PI Guy UKBF Newcomer Free Member

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    My new contact details are:

    Archangel Research Ltd
    Southbridge House
    Southbridge Place
    Croydon
    Surrey
    CR0 4HA

    Tel: 0800 458 7276 Fax: 020 3051 9899
     
    Posted: Aug 4, 2008 By: PI Guy Member since: Jun 20, 2006
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